tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6072311196549853342.post3800710143190061977..comments2023-04-10T04:36:48.336-07:00Comments on Dr. Josh's Blog: Am I nuts?Joshua C. Klapow, Ph.D.http://www.blogger.com/profile/12540544721990401195noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6072311196549853342.post-81017742905183117052009-05-05T12:32:17.000-07:002009-05-05T12:32:17.000-07:00I recently experienced a dramatic weekend with a f...I recently experienced a dramatic weekend with a friend who threatened suicide. She was not able to reason and her emotions came with extreme highs and lows. She is under a lot of pressure from her job as well. Her family is suffering from her emotional abandonment. As an outside friend, I have found a therapist I trust but how do I convince her to go? What steps do I take to since she rather avoid this weekend ever happened? Confused?Rosenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6072311196549853342.post-64500150995028677142009-07-13T01:08:51.000-07:002009-07-13T01:08:51.000-07:00Hi everyone i am new to this. Just thought that i ...Hi everyone i am new to this. Just thought that i would say hello to everyone! dont really know <br>what else to say. so byecupidpaknaznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6072311196549853342.post-22949021557028967922009-05-06T07:26:38.000-07:002009-05-06T07:26:38.000-07:00Thank you for the post Rose-- this is one of those...Thank you for the post Rose-- this is one of those situations where the impact of an emotional problem is really felt. You were a good friend, you are a good friend. You must realize though that you can't "make" her go unless you feel she is a direct threat to herself or someone else. That being said- the best thing you can do is to speak your mind to her in an open and honest manner. You might even offer to go with her to the therapist if she is feeling scared. What you have to let her know is that her actions were life threatening, and as her friend you don't want that to happen again. You must also let her know that just like an infection or wound that is not healing, her emotional injury requires immediate professional attention. In the end, let her know that while you will always be her friend- you won't sit by and let her take her life. If she cares about herself and cares about you she will get help. That's all you can do Rose-- it is her life- jkdr. josh klapowhttp://www.drjoshk.comnoreply@blogger.com